Gerald N. Ross, 74, of Port Charlotte, Florida, passed away surrounded by his family and friends on Friday, November 14, 2014 in Port Charlotte. He was born August 7, 1940 in Lorain, Ohio to the late Gerald N. Ross, Sr. and Harriette Grondin, Ross, Tartaglia. Jerry practiced Catholicism and in his young life served as…
Continue ReadingGerald N. Ross, 74, of Port Charlotte, Florida, passed away surrounded by his family and friends on Friday, November 14, 2014 in Port Charlotte.
He was born August 7, 1940 in Lorain, Ohio to the late Gerald N. Ross, Sr. and Harriette Grondin, Ross, Tartaglia. Jerry practiced Catholicism and in his young life served as an altar boy, and later a member of the Knights of Columbus. He also proudly served with the U.S. Navy and Navy Reserve. Jerry earned three college degrees, a Bachelors of Arts in Education, Master of Education in Counseling from the University of Florida, and a Doctorate of Education in Counseling Psychology from the University of Georgia. In 1974 he moved to Port Charlotte with his wife Patricia who grew up in Port Charlotte. Jerry began his practice with mental health services of Charlotte County, and after some years of providing emergency services became the Executive Director and C.E.O. for 21 years. He retired after 31 years of mental health service with Charlotte Community Mental Health Services, now known as Charlotte Behavioral Health Care or C.B.H.C. He developed this private non-profit organization from 6 employees to over 200 full and part time employees when retired. Subsequently, he worked as a Florida Psychologist for 8 years at the Beacon Clinic in Port Charlotte. His children and grandchildren stayed in Port Charlotte and afforded Jerry the opportunity to watch them and his practice grow strong through the years.
He is survived by his loving wife of 50 years, Patricia J. Ross, and daughters Jennifer Donovan and Julie (Robert “Bob”) Bruglio, all of Port Charlotte, FL; a sister, Louise Ross, and brothers, Michael (Marilyn) Tartaglia, Anthony (Diane) Tartaglia, and Samuel (Mary Ellen) Ross; three grandchildren, Mark J. and Jacob R. Donovan, and Ross E. Bruglio; and many nieces, nephews, and extended family members.
Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. with an evening celebration of life prayer service at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, November 19, 2014, at Roberson Funeral Homes Port Charlotte Chapel. Mass of Christian burial will be held 11:30 a.m. Thursday, November 20, at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church in Port Charlotte.
Memorial donations in lieu of flowers are suggested to Charlotte Behavioral Health Care’s Suicide Prevention Program, 1700 Education Avenue, Punta Gorda, Florida 33950.
Arrangements are by Roberson Funeral Home & Crematory Port Charlotte Chapel.
Don Boland
left a message on November 19, 2014:
God Bless you Dr Ross you helped me in many words cannot express my thanks. May God Bless your family at this time. You will surely be missed
Durinda Whitehead
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Many years ago Gary, his Brother Sam and I went out fishing in Gary's boat in Charlotte Harbor. We thought we caught a shark but as we got it closer to the boat it turned out to be a large sting ray! Didn't take too long to cut the line on that!
Kim Breton
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jennifer and family-
You are in my thoughts and prayers!! Know we are thinking and praying for you!! I only met your Dad once, but he shared the love he had for you and your boys! May your memories comfort you during these difficult days!
Love you!!!
Jill perrotta
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Dr. Ross was a wonderful person. Thoughts and prayers to his family .
Bob & Betty
left a message on November 18, 2014:
A light has gone out in Charlotte County. What a wonderful man. A true gentleman in every way.Loved his wife, family and the county. He will be missed by so many.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dawson hall
left a message on November 18, 2014:
I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but I have known your daughter Julie for many years, I know how highly she would always speak of you and how you meant the world to her. The footprints of your life directly impacted her life which thru my eyes has directed effected my life, in a very positive way. You have helped thousands of people both in one degree and especially in two and three degrees of seperation and that is the best kind of legacy a man can leave on this earth. May your footprints live on in all of our lives and in the future generations to come. God bless your soul.
Diane Matherne
left a message on November 18, 2014:
So sorry for your loss.
Dr. & Mrs. Ray Landry
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Our prayers are with you at this difficult time. Remember the good you shared.
Laura Walters
left a message on November 18, 2014:
We are sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. The Walters
Steve "sledge" Wynn
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jerry was a one of a kind guy. He meant more to me than I could ever express. He always had time to listen and was good for a joke. He taught me some choice words in Italian, and gave me chances to grow in my job here at the center. The world is definitely a better place because of him. Patty if you need anything please reach out , me and Gina will be here for you.
Laura & Steve Stilwell
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jennifer, sending many blessing to you and your family from our family.
Lisa Fair
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Dr. Ross was a man of honor, integrity and true modesty. He helped so many who suffered deep traumatic pain return to normalcy, though he rarely took credit for his work. He was gifted and he truly cared deeply for his clients. Dr. Ross was a dedicated and loving family man. He had an infectious sense of humor and he loved the Florida Gators. I'm sure where he is now, the Gators will always defeat the Noles.
Rest in peace, Sir. You will be deeply missed by so many.
Lisa Fair
Bill Beeler
left a message on February 13, 2015:
I really respected Dr. Ross and his insights. I miss him.
Dan and Martha O'Sullivan
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Mrs. Ross, Jennifer, Julie and Family,
Please accept our deepest and sincerest condolences during this difficult time for all of your families. I am sorry I had never met Jerry but by what I have read he left two lasting legacies: wonderful family and community forever changed by his passion and vision.
Our thoughts and prayers are will the entire Ross Family.
Victoria Carpenter
left a message on November 19, 2014:
I have known Jerry professionally since the early 1990's. A dedicated and compassionate man, Jerry was a recognized community leader and respected advocate for those in need. I always admired his integrity, his tenacity and his infectous smile. He will be missed by many. My sincerest sympathies to the Ross family. Vikki Carpenter
Inge and Dick Holt
left a message on November 19, 2014:
We have many fond memories of Jerry and his work with mental health patients.He will be greatly missed not only in his profession but in the many civic endeavors since he has been here. Pat - you will be in our thoughts in this time of great sadness.
Michael Mallory
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Dear Mrs. Ross and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Dr. Ross was a great man. I was so fortunate and honored to have had in my life.
With Love and Sympathy,
Mike.
Durfee and Ann Marshall
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Pat, I was so sorry to read of your dear husband's passing this morning. Please know that you are in my prayers. I really enjoyed getting to know you so many years ago when we would share rides to our accounting classes. Love and Sympathy, Ann
Liz Weisiger
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Even thought I did not know Dr. Ross on a personal level, I know his daughter, Jen & her sons.
I've heard nothing but great things about Dr. Ross. His legacy of selflessness, caring and vision is seen in Charlotte County and he will be missed dearly.
Prayers for peace and love are sent your way -
The Weisigers
Donna Barrett
left a message on November 19, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Dr. Ross will always be the vision I have when I think about a dedicated father and grandfather. I had the honor of meeting Dr. Ross as he and Mrs. Ross would come to watch their grandsons play football. Dr. Ross would be at every practice and game.
He was also complimentary and caring for all the players, and always had something inspirational to say.
His smile was brightest as his children and grandchildren shined.
He will forever be missed, and his kindness will always live on
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
christina gentry
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Dr. Ross,
A man of courage, compassion, strength, and laughter. He will be missed by so many.
Christina Gentry
Project H.O.P.E.
left a message on November 20, 2014:
God saw you were suffering and in his kindness took you where you can rest in peace.
God, we ask you keek Jerry Ross, our dear departed friend, as close to your heart as he will always be in ours.
Members of Project H.O.P.E.
Sharon Neuhofer
left a message on November 20, 2014:
A man of compassion, generosity and kindness, Dr. Ross will forever have a place in my heart. Offering prayers of comfort during this difficult time.
Beverly & Norm Kapp
left a message on December 31, 2014:
God bless you Dr. Ross. You were the only person that totally "got" Norm and me, and we appreciate every minute we spent with you, whether it was professional, or as a friend.
To the family,:
Our hearts go out to you. We know trouble and heartache have not been a stranger. We hope God will reach out and touch you with his blessings and heal your pain and losses, and make you strong!
Dr. Ross changed our lives, and we loved and respected him. Noted for his warmth and compassion, I know he will truly be missed by other lives that he touched. He will be sorely missed!
God bless!
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Don Boland
left a message on November 19, 2014:
God Bless you Dr Ross you helped me in many words cannot express my thanks. May God Bless your family at this time. You will surely be missed
Durinda Whitehead
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Many years ago Gary, his Brother Sam and I went out fishing in Gary's boat in Charlotte Harbor. We thought we caught a shark but as we got it closer to the boat it turned out to be a large sting ray! Didn't take too long to cut the line on that!
Kim Breton
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jennifer and family-
You are in my thoughts and prayers!! Know we are thinking and praying for you!! I only met your Dad once, but he shared the love he had for you and your boys! May your memories comfort you during these difficult days!
Love you!!!
Jill perrotta
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Dr. Ross was a wonderful person. Thoughts and prayers to his family .
Bob & Betty
left a message on November 18, 2014:
A light has gone out in Charlotte County. What a wonderful man. A true gentleman in every way.Loved his wife, family and the county. He will be missed by so many.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dawson hall
left a message on November 18, 2014:
I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but I have known your daughter Julie for many years, I know how highly she would always speak of you and how you meant the world to her. The footprints of your life directly impacted her life which thru my eyes has directed effected my life, in a very positive way. You have helped thousands of people both in one degree and especially in two and three degrees of seperation and that is the best kind of legacy a man can leave on this earth. May your footprints live on in all of our lives and in the future generations to come. God bless your soul.
Diane Matherne
left a message on November 18, 2014:
So sorry for your loss.
Dr. & Mrs. Ray Landry
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Our prayers are with you at this difficult time. Remember the good you shared.
Laura Walters
left a message on November 18, 2014:
We are sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. The Walters
Steve "sledge" Wynn
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jerry was a one of a kind guy. He meant more to me than I could ever express. He always had time to listen and was good for a joke. He taught me some choice words in Italian, and gave me chances to grow in my job here at the center. The world is definitely a better place because of him. Patty if you need anything please reach out , me and Gina will be here for you.
Laura & Steve Stilwell
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Jennifer, sending many blessing to you and your family from our family.
Lisa Fair
left a message on November 18, 2014:
Dr. Ross was a man of honor, integrity and true modesty. He helped so many who suffered deep traumatic pain return to normalcy, though he rarely took credit for his work. He was gifted and he truly cared deeply for his clients. Dr. Ross was a dedicated and loving family man. He had an infectious sense of humor and he loved the Florida Gators. I'm sure where he is now, the Gators will always defeat the Noles.
Rest in peace, Sir. You will be deeply missed by so many.
Lisa Fair
Bill Beeler
left a message on February 13, 2015:
I really respected Dr. Ross and his insights. I miss him.
Dan and Martha O'Sullivan
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Mrs. Ross, Jennifer, Julie and Family,
Please accept our deepest and sincerest condolences during this difficult time for all of your families. I am sorry I had never met Jerry but by what I have read he left two lasting legacies: wonderful family and community forever changed by his passion and vision.
Our thoughts and prayers are will the entire Ross Family.
Victoria Carpenter
left a message on November 19, 2014:
I have known Jerry professionally since the early 1990's. A dedicated and compassionate man, Jerry was a recognized community leader and respected advocate for those in need. I always admired his integrity, his tenacity and his infectous smile. He will be missed by many. My sincerest sympathies to the Ross family. Vikki Carpenter
Inge and Dick Holt
left a message on November 19, 2014:
We have many fond memories of Jerry and his work with mental health patients.He will be greatly missed not only in his profession but in the many civic endeavors since he has been here. Pat - you will be in our thoughts in this time of great sadness.
Michael Mallory
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Dear Mrs. Ross and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Dr. Ross was a great man. I was so fortunate and honored to have had in my life.
With Love and Sympathy,
Mike.
Durfee and Ann Marshall
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Pat, I was so sorry to read of your dear husband's passing this morning. Please know that you are in my prayers. I really enjoyed getting to know you so many years ago when we would share rides to our accounting classes. Love and Sympathy, Ann
Liz Weisiger
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Even thought I did not know Dr. Ross on a personal level, I know his daughter, Jen & her sons.
I've heard nothing but great things about Dr. Ross. His legacy of selflessness, caring and vision is seen in Charlotte County and he will be missed dearly.
Prayers for peace and love are sent your way -
The Weisigers
Donna Barrett
left a message on November 19, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Dr. Ross will always be the vision I have when I think about a dedicated father and grandfather. I had the honor of meeting Dr. Ross as he and Mrs. Ross would come to watch their grandsons play football. Dr. Ross would be at every practice and game.
He was also complimentary and caring for all the players, and always had something inspirational to say.
His smile was brightest as his children and grandchildren shined.
He will forever be missed, and his kindness will always live on
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
christina gentry
left a message on November 19, 2014:
Dr. Ross,
A man of courage, compassion, strength, and laughter. He will be missed by so many.
Christina Gentry
Project H.O.P.E.
left a message on November 20, 2014:
God saw you were suffering and in his kindness took you where you can rest in peace.
God, we ask you keek Jerry Ross, our dear departed friend, as close to your heart as he will always be in ours.
Members of Project H.O.P.E.
Sharon Neuhofer
left a message on November 20, 2014:
A man of compassion, generosity and kindness, Dr. Ross will forever have a place in my heart. Offering prayers of comfort during this difficult time.
Beverly & Norm Kapp
left a message on December 31, 2014:
God bless you Dr. Ross. You were the only person that totally "got" Norm and me, and we appreciate every minute we spent with you, whether it was professional, or as a friend.
To the family,:
Our hearts go out to you. We know trouble and heartache have not been a stranger. We hope God will reach out and touch you with his blessings and heal your pain and losses, and make you strong!
Dr. Ross changed our lives, and we loved and respected him. Noted for his warmth and compassion, I know he will truly be missed by other lives that he touched. He will be sorely missed!
God bless!
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