Matthew R. (Matt) Pouk, 19, of Port Charlotte, passed away Saturday, September 19, 2009 from injuries sustained during an automobile accident in Punta Gorda. Matt was born June 18, 1990 in Port Charlotte to Jeffrey L. and Lisa Neff Pouk. A native of Port Charlotte and a Charlotte High School Graduate, Class of 2008, Matt,…
Continue ReadingMatthew R. (Matt) Pouk, 19, of Port Charlotte, passed away Saturday, September 19, 2009 from injuries sustained during an automobile accident in Punta Gorda.
Matt was born June 18, 1990 in Port Charlotte to Jeffrey L. and Lisa Neff Pouk. A native of Port Charlotte and a Charlotte High School Graduate, Class of 2008, Matt, a former Tarpon Football Player, attended Edison College where he was studying toward a degree in Engineering while working simultaneously as a stock clerk for Winn Dixie Grocery Stores in Port Charlotte and on Kings Highway. Matt, a loving and beloved son, brother, grandson and friend, was an avid outdoors person with a passion for Snook fishing.
Matt is survived by his beloved parents, Jeffrey and Lisa Pouk, and sister Kimberly Pouk, all of Port Charlotte; paternal grandfather, Robert Pouk, and maternal grandparents, Barney and Janet Neff, all formerly of Punta Gorda; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
Letter to my son…
My hands were busy through the days, but I always tried to stop and play. The little games you asked me to, I am so glad I spent the time with you. I’d wash your clothes, sew and cook, but when you’d bring your picture book, and ask me please to share your fun, I’d say sure son. I’d tuck you in all safe at night and hear your prayers, turn out the light. Then tiptoe softly to the door, I am so glad when you asked me to come back and stay a few minutes more. Your life was to short, the years rushed by. My little boy grew up too fast.
No longer are you at my side, your precious secrets to confide. The picture books are all put away. There are no longer games to play. No more goodnight kisses, no more prayers to hear. My hands once busy now are still. The days so long and it’s so hard to deal. I wish I could go back and keep you safe, I’m sorry. We will meet again another time, another place. Remember, who loves ya Bubba? Mama does.
Marc Fratina
left a message on July 8, 2023:
Miss you everyday brother for the past 15 years. I will never forget you brother.
Sandy
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Lisa and family,
I am sooo sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in my prayers, along with the prayers of so many other people. May God, family, and friends be especially near to each and every one of you as you go through this very difficult time.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Sandy Asaro
Kara
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We'll miss you Matt! You made us all better people, your the best!
Friends
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We are so very sorry for your loss. There is an outpouring of love and prayers for your family from this community. May God bless Matt and comfort him in His loving arms. And may the thoughts and prayers of all who love you help sustain you during this difficult time.
Morgan
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matty you are my older brother. You took Andy's place when he passed and you were always there for me. I cant belive your gone. I miss you with all my heart. You'll always be in my heart big brother. I love you Matty. Watch over us all
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Mark Biagioli
left a message on September 22, 2009:
My sincere condolences go out to your family & friends. I pray that the Lord will oomfort you by providing you the knowledge that Matt is now with Him and will be awaiting all of you.
Helen McCleery
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. We're so glad to have known him.
Alison & Jack Handley
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. We're so glad you were part of our lives. We will miss you dearly.
Lynn & Ted Atkins
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. May God bless you all.
Linda Irons
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We extend our deepest heartfelt sympathy to you, Lisa, Jeff, and Kim. May God comfort your every moment.
There comes a day,
We must go away...
But as we wait
At Heaven's gate..
Casting blessings of every kind,
To our loved ones left behind...
So they will never be alone
Til the day we welcome them home.
I'm grieving for you, my friend.
Love, Linda, Greg, Zach, Chris
Matt Mason
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt, You were a great friend to my sister, my friends, and I. I will never forget you, you were truly a great person, but you were always there for Julie, and that ment alot to me. Thanks for everything. I pray for peace and comfort for all your friends, but more importantly your family.
God Bless!
mom
left a message on September 22, 2009:
I miss you so much Matt. Love ya mom
Nichole Bradshaw
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Mr. Pouk, Lisa, and Kim, I can't even begin to imagine how your life has been turned upside down during this time of grief and loss. However, know that no matter what, God will carry you through this tragedy. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Lean on Him and know that Matt is with Him watching over you. Matt was such a great kid. He will be forever loved and remembered in our hearts. Your family and friends are in my prayers knowing that you will find the strength needed to get through this.-Nicky
Brittany & Justin
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt, you were an awesome friend. You always could put a smile on your friends faces, you will always be in our hearts. Mr.& Mrs. Pouk, and Kim we are so sorry for your loss and we will keep you all in our hearts, your son was THE BEST he truly lit up the room when he was around...he will be deeply missed. Love you man!
Jack & Sue
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We'll both miss your son Matt's friendly waves and his smiling face. Just seeing him while out on a walk with the dog or on a drive, made living in this beautiful neighborhood that much more pleasant. The Good Lord blessed us all with Matt. We share your loss.
Your neighhors from across the pond at Dunbar and Holly
Kimberly Kickliter
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Dear Lisa Family,
Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. If ther is anything that I can do to help you in the tough times ahead please let me know. Matt will be missed by all that knew him!
ashley andreu
left a message on September 22, 2009:
matty pookie...
i love you bestfriend. you mean the world and ill miss you more than you will imagine. your family is going through alot and i hope they make it through these tough times. its so hard i dont want to let my bestfriend go. im at your house all the time just to lay in your bed. i love you. your momma raised you right boyyy. well your dad and kim did a pretty good job to. i miss you pookie or should i say pumpkin. i have so many memories that i cant let go of i will hold them forever i was going to talk at your funeral but i could bring myself to i broke down and scott was by my side the whole time to comfort me and tell me he knew you loved me too. i have more love for you than anyone. your getting taken care of now, jesus will hold you in his arms because i cant anymore. i love you matthew reid pouk. i live for you now. loud wild and out of controlll. minus drinking.i love you baby. your my guardian angel now. ill see you when jesis calls me home. i love you.
Shawn & Gerald McCann
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We are saddened by your loss and our hearts and prayers are with you. May the memory of Matthew and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. May God watch over you.
Sheri Lee
left a message on September 22, 2009:
A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
And for one brief moment
Its beauty & glory
Belong to our world
But then it flies on again
And though we wish it could have stayed
We feel so lucky to have seen it.
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stephanie Clore-Otte
left a message on September 22, 2009:
My deepest condolences for the family and especially for Jeff & Lisa. My heart extends to you guys. Know your family is in our prayers now and always.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Paul Lioon & Family
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our Prayers are with you and for your family. His death has robbed us of a Good Man We all feel your severe loss deeply. Although we knew Matt for such a short time, we will miss him.
May you find some small measure of consolation from all the messages and may the words of the poet, Walt Whitman lead you to hope:
He is not gone. He is just away,
With a cheery smile and the wave of the hand,
He has wandered into an unknown land,
And left us wondering how very fair that land may be, since he tarries there...
Sarah Merriman
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt,
I love you and will miss you so much. Thank you for being an amazing friend and person. I love you and will keep your family in my prayers.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Marc Fratina
left a message on July 8, 2023:
Miss you everyday brother for the past 15 years. I will never forget you brother.
Sandy
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Lisa and family,
I am sooo sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in my prayers, along with the prayers of so many other people. May God, family, and friends be especially near to each and every one of you as you go through this very difficult time.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Sandy Asaro
Kara
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We'll miss you Matt! You made us all better people, your the best!
Friends
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We are so very sorry for your loss. There is an outpouring of love and prayers for your family from this community. May God bless Matt and comfort him in His loving arms. And may the thoughts and prayers of all who love you help sustain you during this difficult time.
Morgan
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matty you are my older brother. You took Andy's place when he passed and you were always there for me. I cant belive your gone. I miss you with all my heart. You'll always be in my heart big brother. I love you Matty. Watch over us all
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Mark Biagioli
left a message on September 22, 2009:
My sincere condolences go out to your family & friends. I pray that the Lord will oomfort you by providing you the knowledge that Matt is now with Him and will be awaiting all of you.
Helen McCleery
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. We're so glad to have known him.
Alison & Jack Handley
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. We're so glad you were part of our lives. We will miss you dearly.
Lynn & Ted Atkins
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. May God bless you all.
Linda Irons
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We extend our deepest heartfelt sympathy to you, Lisa, Jeff, and Kim. May God comfort your every moment.
There comes a day,
We must go away...
But as we wait
At Heaven's gate..
Casting blessings of every kind,
To our loved ones left behind...
So they will never be alone
Til the day we welcome them home.
I'm grieving for you, my friend.
Love, Linda, Greg, Zach, Chris
Matt Mason
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt, You were a great friend to my sister, my friends, and I. I will never forget you, you were truly a great person, but you were always there for Julie, and that ment alot to me. Thanks for everything. I pray for peace and comfort for all your friends, but more importantly your family.
God Bless!
mom
left a message on September 22, 2009:
I miss you so much Matt. Love ya mom
Nichole Bradshaw
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Mr. Pouk, Lisa, and Kim, I can't even begin to imagine how your life has been turned upside down during this time of grief and loss. However, know that no matter what, God will carry you through this tragedy. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Lean on Him and know that Matt is with Him watching over you. Matt was such a great kid. He will be forever loved and remembered in our hearts. Your family and friends are in my prayers knowing that you will find the strength needed to get through this.-Nicky
Brittany & Justin
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt, you were an awesome friend. You always could put a smile on your friends faces, you will always be in our hearts. Mr.& Mrs. Pouk, and Kim we are so sorry for your loss and we will keep you all in our hearts, your son was THE BEST he truly lit up the room when he was around...he will be deeply missed. Love you man!
Jack & Sue
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We'll both miss your son Matt's friendly waves and his smiling face. Just seeing him while out on a walk with the dog or on a drive, made living in this beautiful neighborhood that much more pleasant. The Good Lord blessed us all with Matt. We share your loss.
Your neighhors from across the pond at Dunbar and Holly
Kimberly Kickliter
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Dear Lisa Family,
Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. If ther is anything that I can do to help you in the tough times ahead please let me know. Matt will be missed by all that knew him!
ashley andreu
left a message on September 22, 2009:
matty pookie...
i love you bestfriend. you mean the world and ill miss you more than you will imagine. your family is going through alot and i hope they make it through these tough times. its so hard i dont want to let my bestfriend go. im at your house all the time just to lay in your bed. i love you. your momma raised you right boyyy. well your dad and kim did a pretty good job to. i miss you pookie or should i say pumpkin. i have so many memories that i cant let go of i will hold them forever i was going to talk at your funeral but i could bring myself to i broke down and scott was by my side the whole time to comfort me and tell me he knew you loved me too. i have more love for you than anyone. your getting taken care of now, jesus will hold you in his arms because i cant anymore. i love you matthew reid pouk. i live for you now. loud wild and out of controlll. minus drinking.i love you baby. your my guardian angel now. ill see you when jesis calls me home. i love you.
Shawn & Gerald McCann
left a message on September 22, 2009:
We are saddened by your loss and our hearts and prayers are with you. May the memory of Matthew and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. May God watch over you.
Sheri Lee
left a message on September 22, 2009:
A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
And for one brief moment
Its beauty & glory
Belong to our world
But then it flies on again
And though we wish it could have stayed
We feel so lucky to have seen it.
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stephanie Clore-Otte
left a message on September 22, 2009:
My deepest condolences for the family and especially for Jeff & Lisa. My heart extends to you guys. Know your family is in our prayers now and always.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Paul Lioon & Family
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Our Prayers are with you and for your family. His death has robbed us of a Good Man We all feel your severe loss deeply. Although we knew Matt for such a short time, we will miss him.
May you find some small measure of consolation from all the messages and may the words of the poet, Walt Whitman lead you to hope:
He is not gone. He is just away,
With a cheery smile and the wave of the hand,
He has wandered into an unknown land,
And left us wondering how very fair that land may be, since he tarries there...
Sarah Merriman
left a message on September 22, 2009:
Matt,
I love you and will miss you so much. Thank you for being an amazing friend and person. I love you and will keep your family in my prayers.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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