Larry Mervin Schmidt, 62, of Port Charlotte, Florida passed away Wednesday, August 20, 2008 at his residence. He was born September 29, 1945 in Walkerton Ontario, Canada and moved to Port Charlotte twenty years ago from Neptune, New Jersey Larry worked at Charlotte County Utilities as an accountant before retiring. He was a member of…
Continue ReadingLarry Mervin Schmidt, 62, of Port Charlotte, Florida passed away Wednesday, August 20, 2008 at his residence.
He was born September 29, 1945 in Walkerton Ontario, Canada and moved to Port Charlotte twenty years ago from Neptune, New Jersey Larry worked at Charlotte County Utilities as an accountant before retiring.
He was a member of A.B.A.T.E. of Charlotte County. Larry was a loving husband,father, brother and son and will be missed very much.
Survived by his loving wife, Pamela K. Schmidt of Port Charlotte; one daughter,Erika Schmidt of Southern California; a son, Brandon C.L. Schmidt of Gainesville, FL., his mother, Bernice Ambrose of Canada; two sisters, Kathi Sillers and Linda Schmidt both of Canada; a brother, David Schmidt of Canada; preceded in death by his father,Lloyd Schmidt and brother, Wayne Schmidt
Lisa Bernice Schmidt
left a message on August 5, 2012:
I am Larry Schmidt's daughter from his first marriage, to Margaret Cummings (October 14, 1945 - October 6, 2008). I was born in 1968 and my parents split up a few years later. I didn't see him again until I was in my mid twenties. Larry is also survived by two grandsons, Jamone (born 1992) and Isaiah (1993). We visited Larry and his family when Jamone and Isaiah were babies. Later, I visited again on my own. We had some good times, but I was unable to deal with having grown up without him and not being part of his life. I thought I could, and I said that I could, but my lifestyle and behavior absolutely screamed "daddy issues". For his part, he was disappointed in me, and made that very clear. He loved me and I loved him. I suffered from his absence, and he from mine, but we acted like jerks, pushed each other away and ultimately ended up completely estranged. Thinking that you have all the time in the world to make up your mind about forgiveness is a very big mistake.
I remember walking with Larry on the beach at Boca Grande. I remember the time he spent with my sons, and I'll remember him every time I look in the mirror and see his face, his eyes, his expressions.
Pam, Erika, and Brandon, I'm sorry for your loss. I don't think you're sorry for ours. I don't think you even consider what I and my sons experienced to be a loss. Just remember that at least you got to have a life with him. Some of us didn't even have that, and are mourning not only him, but what never was and never will be.
Mr &Mrs Robert Rogowski
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Dear Pam and family,
We're sorry to hear about your husband's passing. We spoke to Father Cesar today. We hope the burden of his suffering has eased. You take care and God Bless. We'll see you in church.
Kim,Bob and Stevie
Heather
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Brandon, Pam, and Erika,
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers and if there's anything you guys need, never hesitate to ask. Sorry I can't be in Florida to be there for you. Love to you all.
Sherry Serven
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam,Erika, and Brandon!
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know that Larry was ill for a long time. He will be missed by many people.
Sherry Serven
Sue Slonager
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam, I was so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. I worked with him at CCU & could always count on Larry's sense of humor to brighten up the day. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Judy Hawkes
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam-My deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband. I was very saddened to hear of his passing, but may you find comfort in knowing that he rests in the arms of our Lord. I worked with Larry at CCU for many years, and was sorry to see him leave. If I can do anything for you and your family, please feel free to contact me. May God bless you and your family during this very difficult time.
Judy Hawkes
alicia accardi
left a message on August 23, 2008:
I am so sorry for the loss of Larry. I worked at CCU just accross from him, and always enjoyed his wry sense of humor. I was sad to see him go when he left the Utility, and know that many mourn his passing. He was a funny man and fun to see strolling in every morning.
Joining in your loss,
Alicia C. Accardi
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Lisa Bernice Schmidt
left a message on August 5, 2012:
I am Larry Schmidt's daughter from his first marriage, to Margaret Cummings (October 14, 1945 - October 6, 2008). I was born in 1968 and my parents split up a few years later. I didn't see him again until I was in my mid twenties. Larry is also survived by two grandsons, Jamone (born 1992) and Isaiah (1993). We visited Larry and his family when Jamone and Isaiah were babies. Later, I visited again on my own. We had some good times, but I was unable to deal with having grown up without him and not being part of his life. I thought I could, and I said that I could, but my lifestyle and behavior absolutely screamed "daddy issues". For his part, he was disappointed in me, and made that very clear. He loved me and I loved him. I suffered from his absence, and he from mine, but we acted like jerks, pushed each other away and ultimately ended up completely estranged. Thinking that you have all the time in the world to make up your mind about forgiveness is a very big mistake.
I remember walking with Larry on the beach at Boca Grande. I remember the time he spent with my sons, and I'll remember him every time I look in the mirror and see his face, his eyes, his expressions.
Pam, Erika, and Brandon, I'm sorry for your loss. I don't think you're sorry for ours. I don't think you even consider what I and my sons experienced to be a loss. Just remember that at least you got to have a life with him. Some of us didn't even have that, and are mourning not only him, but what never was and never will be.
Mr &Mrs Robert Rogowski
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Dear Pam and family,
We're sorry to hear about your husband's passing. We spoke to Father Cesar today. We hope the burden of his suffering has eased. You take care and God Bless. We'll see you in church.
Kim,Bob and Stevie
Heather
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Brandon, Pam, and Erika,
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers and if there's anything you guys need, never hesitate to ask. Sorry I can't be in Florida to be there for you. Love to you all.
Sherry Serven
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam,Erika, and Brandon!
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know that Larry was ill for a long time. He will be missed by many people.
Sherry Serven
Sue Slonager
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam, I was so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. I worked with him at CCU & could always count on Larry's sense of humor to brighten up the day. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Judy Hawkes
left a message on August 23, 2008:
Pam-My deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband. I was very saddened to hear of his passing, but may you find comfort in knowing that he rests in the arms of our Lord. I worked with Larry at CCU for many years, and was sorry to see him leave. If I can do anything for you and your family, please feel free to contact me. May God bless you and your family during this very difficult time.
Judy Hawkes
alicia accardi
left a message on August 23, 2008:
I am so sorry for the loss of Larry. I worked at CCU just accross from him, and always enjoyed his wry sense of humor. I was sad to see him go when he left the Utility, and know that many mourn his passing. He was a funny man and fun to see strolling in every morning.
Joining in your loss,
Alicia C. Accardi
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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